2. You’re willing to miss out on time with friends and they’re not
If you’re usually the one willing to ditch friends or cancel plans and your bae is reluctant, they could have the upper hand. You’re canceling because you want to spend more time with your lover or will think of them the whole night out, but they might not be as flexible on missing out on time with friends. Just to clarify: healthy time away from the relationship with friends is always important. As they say, absence makes the heart grow fonder.