8. They’re not there when you need them
If your partner is always flaking on you and not showing up when you need them, it’s a red flag. Are you willing to drop everything just to support your partner? That’s what real love is. If you need them for comfort, advice, or just a shoulder to cry on and they’re mysteriously never there or tell you it’s not a big deal, that’s not great. Love is all about showing up for another person, at the end of the day.